When I was younger I swore I would clean my room, eat green veggies, but as we get older we take vows, we make promises, we get burdened by commitments, to do no harm and to tell the truth and nothing but to love and cherish till death do us part. So we just keep running up the tap until we owe everything to every body …..
And then
Suddenly we think what the ….?
Some perspective – What did the incident mean? (that nasty escalation)
It meant that I had a choice, I had a choice to remain calm, or scream, go cold, or keep my cool…. … Or BREAK DOWN!
Embarrassing as it is- I broke down, so I need you to have some perspective.. In a place (referring to the city) where people are constantly being rude, harsh, lying, fighting, threatening…I broke down…I broke down
When I got back to work today and looked at my office building and thought “I am not crazy or anything…” I did what I did and need to move on…saunter (Irish Slang for move) on mate saunter on…
So many wars have been fought because of religion and faith. Marrying Dave was learning that if you don’t generalise a person and take that individual at fault rather than tagging it along with country, religion or faith then you are open to more people and you don’t struggle in winning a war that was never yours and never meant to be.
So go ahead argue with the refs (referee), cheat a little, take a break and TEND TO YOUR WOUNDS, but play, play hard and fast, play loose and free, Play as though there is no tomorrow!

" if you don’t generalise a person and take that individual at fault rather than tagging it along with country, religion or faith then you are open to more people and you don’t struggle in winning a war that was never yours and never meant to be."
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well written babe!!
thanks dee.. writing another one ..hope you like it :)..hey i know its kinda of early.. u think if i did get better.. i could like write write .. u know.. what i mean?
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